Thriving as a Nonverbal Learning Disorder Adult

A nonverbal learning disorder (NVLD) in an adult can feel like a walking contradiction. On one hand, you might have a stellar vocabulary and a real talent for speaking or writing. On the other, you find yourself struggling to understand the unspoken, nonverbal parts of the world. It’s a condition where someone could be a gifted poet but gets lost trying to read social cues, navigate a new neighborhood, or just keep their daily life organized.

This isn't about intelligence. It’s about a fundamental difference in how the brain is wired to process information.

What It Feels Like to Be an Adult with Nonverbal Learning Disorder

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Here’s an analogy I often use: Imagine you’re a seasoned traveler who has just landed in a foreign country. You've spent years mastering the language and are completely fluent. You can debate philosophy, tell intricate jokes, and charm the locals with your words.

But when it comes to the practical stuff? You’re lost. You can't make sense of the subway map, you misinterpret the frantic hand gestures of someone trying to give you directions, and you don’t understand why a joke you told—which was grammatically perfect—was met with awkward silence.

That’s a pretty close parallel to what it feels like to be an adult with NVLD. Your verbal skills are often your superpower, a tool you lean on constantly. But the world communicates with so much more than just words. It relies on body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, and spatial awareness—all of which can feel like an impossible code to crack.

The Contrast of Strengths and Challenges

An adult with NVLD might be the most articulate person in a business meeting, able to write a detailed, persuasive report that wows everyone. Yet, that same person could struggle to follow a multi-step project plan if it's laid out in a visual chart or find it hard to notice when a coworker is getting visibly annoyed during a conversation.

This creates a confusing experience, both for the individual and for those around them. People see you as smart and capable—and you are—but then they get frustrated when you miss social subtext or struggle with hands-on, practical tasks. It’s a disconnect that often leads to deep feelings of isolation and being misunderstood.

At its core, the difficulty isn't a lack of effort or intelligence. It's a fundamental difference in how you process the world. The brain’s "operating system" is simply wired to excel with words while having a tough time computing visual, spatial, and social data.

The Real-World Impact

The effects of this unique cognitive profile are felt everywhere and are often completely invisible to others. While Nonverbal Learning Disorder is not yet an official diagnosis in the DSM-5, its impact is profound. We see this reflected in studies suggesting that NVLD affects an estimated 3-4% of children and adolescents in North America. That’s a huge number of people who grow into adults trying to manage these challenges, often without ever getting a clear diagnosis. You can learn more about the prevalence of NVLD and the ongoing discussions around its classification at The Winston Preparatory School's resource page.

For an adult, these challenges pop up in key areas of life:

  • At Work: You might struggle to manage complex projects, feel out of place during team-building activities that rely on unwritten social rules, or have trouble interpreting a manager's feedback.
  • In Relationships: You might misread your partner's mood, take a sarcastic comment completely literally, or feel like you can never quite "read the room" at a party.
  • Daily Tasks: Simple things can feel overwhelming. Assembling furniture from a diagram, packing a suitcase efficiently, or even just navigating a crowded grocery store can be a major source of stress.

Understanding this lived experience is the first step. It builds empathy and helps everyone—including the individual with NVLD—recognize that these struggles are real. From here, we can start to explore the specific symptoms, the path to diagnosis, and the strategies that actually work.

Recognizing The Signs Of Adult NVLD In Daily Life

The clinical descriptions of Nonverbal Learning Disorder can feel a bit abstract. But for an adult with NVLD, the challenges are very real, woven into the fabric of everyday life. These aren't huge, dramatic events; they're the subtle, persistent struggles that can leave you feeling confused and deeply frustrated.

These symptoms often show up in very specific, real-world situations at work, at home, and in your social life. Understanding how these challenges manifest day-to-day is the first step toward self-awareness. It's about finally connecting the dots between feeling constantly overwhelmed by "simple" things and a potential, underlying neurodivergence.

Let’s break down what these signs actually look like in action.

Visual-Spatial And Organizational Hurdles

A core challenge for an adult with a nonverbal learning disorder is processing visual and spatial information. Think of it like trying to build a complex Lego set, but the instruction booklet is just a jumble of pictures with no clear order. Your brain struggles to translate the 2D diagram into a 3D reality.

This can show up in all sorts of ways:

  • Assembling furniture or following any kind of diagram feels next to impossible.
  • Navigating new places is a major source of anxiety. You might get lost in a new city, a large hospital, or even a big-box store because mental maps just don't "stick."
  • Keeping your space organized is a constant battle. This isn't about being messy—it's about the genuine difficulty in spatially arranging objects, which leads to cluttered desks and chaotic rooms.

These hurdles often extend beyond physical space. Organizing your thoughts for a multi-step project or managing your time effectively can be just as difficult. The same part of the brain that struggles to organize objects in a room often struggles to organize abstract concepts on a timeline.

Motor Skill And Coordination Difficulties

Another common sign involves motor skills, both big and small. An adult with NVLD might have an excellent memory and strong verbal skills but feel physically clumsy or uncoordinated. This isn't from a lack of practice; it’s because the brain has a hard time integrating visual-spatial information to guide physical movement.

For example, you might experience:

  • Awkwardness in sports or any activity requiring hand-eye coordination, like catching a ball.
  • Trouble with fine motor tasks that require precision, like wrapping a gift neatly, using scissors, or having legible handwriting.
  • General clumsiness, like frequently bumping into furniture or tripping over things that others seem to sidestep with ease.

The experience can be incredibly frustrating. Knowing exactly what you want your body to do but being unable to execute the movement smoothly can make you feel completely out of sync with your physical self.

Social Interpretation Challenges

This is often the most painful and misunderstood aspect of being an adult with NVLD. So much of human communication is unspoken—it’s in the tone of voice, the look in someone’s eyes, or the posture they adopt. For someone with NVLD, it’s like trying to understand a foreign language with no subtitles.

The infographic below shows just how central these spatial, social, and emotional challenges are to the NVLD experience for adults.

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As the data shows, deficits in spatial reasoning and social interpretation are two of the most significant struggles, often leading to heightened anxiety. You might take a sarcastic comment literally, miss the joke entirely, or fail to notice when a friend is upset, even if their body language is screaming it. This can cause frequent misunderstandings and social isolation, leaving you seeming aloof or awkward when you don't mean to be.

This isn't just a minor quirk; it's a significant cognitive difference. Learning disabilities are widespread, affecting about 15% of the U.S. population in some form. NVLD specifically is estimated to impact around 1 in 50 people, making it a more common yet underrecognized condition. You can explore more statistics about learning disabilities and their prevalence to understand the broader context.

To make these abstract challenges more concrete, let's look at how they typically play out in different areas of an adult's life. The table below shows what these core NVLD symptoms often look like at work, in social settings, and at home.

How Adult NVLD Symptoms Appear in Daily Life

Symptom Category What It Looks Like at Work What It Looks Like in Social Settings What It Looks Like at Home
Visual-Spatial Difficulty reading charts/graphs; messy desk; trouble organizing files or project steps. Getting lost on the way to a new restaurant; trouble "reading a room" or gauging personal space. Can't assemble furniture; struggles with tidying; misjudges distances when parking a car.
Motor Skills Clumsy movements (e.g., spilling coffee); poor handwriting; slow typing speed. Awkwardness in sports or dancing; difficulty with things like using chopsticks or tying knots. Trouble with cooking tasks (chopping), gift wrapping, or other fine-motor hobbies.
Social Cues Misinterpreting a boss's tone; taking feedback too literally; not noticing when colleagues are busy. Missing sarcasm or jokes; trouble following group conversations; appearing uninterested or aloof. Failing to notice a partner's nonverbal signals of being upset; misunderstanding family dynamics.
Abstract Concepts Trouble with big-picture thinking or strategy; difficulty managing long-term project timelines. Difficulty understanding metaphors or abstract humor; struggles to grasp unwritten social rules. Struggles with financial planning or budgeting; difficulty breaking down large household projects.

Seeing these patterns laid out can be a real "aha!" moment. It's not about being "bad" at certain things; it's about a consistent, lifelong pattern of specific challenges that point toward a neurodevelopmental difference. Recognizing this is the first step toward getting the right kind of support.

How to Get an Adult NVLD Diagnosis

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Getting a diagnosis for a nonverbal learning disorder as an adult can feel like you're finally getting a map to a place you've lived your whole life. Suddenly, the confusing roads and dead ends make sense. It’s not just about getting a label; it’s about validation. A diagnosis provides a name for lifelong struggles and, more importantly, opens the door to support that actually works.

Many adults with NVLD were never diagnosed as kids. Their strong verbal and reading skills often masked their other difficulties. Teachers just saw a bright, articulate child and couldn't understand why they struggled with social norms, seemed clumsy, or couldn't stay organized. This long history of being misunderstood is what makes getting an official diagnosis as an adult so powerful.

The First Steps on Your Diagnostic Journey

So, where do you start? The journey begins right where you are now—with self-awareness and research. If the patterns of visual-spatial, motor, and social challenges we've discussed feel deeply familiar, it’s time to seek a professional evaluation. This isn't something you can, or should, try to diagnose on your own.

Because NVLD has such a specific profile of strengths and weaknesses, you need a specialist. Your goal is to find a professional who has deep experience with learning disorders and neurodiversity.

The expert you're looking for is a neuropsychologist. They are trained to understand the intricate connections between brain function and behavior. A neuropsychologist has the right tools to look past the surface and identify the unique cognitive signature of NVLD.

Understanding the Neuropsychological Evaluation

The gold standard for diagnosing NVLD in adults is a neuropsychological evaluation. It’s a thorough, comprehensive process designed to map out your cognitive abilities. Think of it less like a single test and more like a series of targeted assessments, usually conducted over several hours.

The evaluation will measure several key areas:

  • Visual-Spatial and Visual-Motor Skills: You might be asked to do things like copy complex shapes, solve visual puzzles, or arrange blocks to match a specific pattern. These tasks show how well you perceive and work with spatial information.
  • Executive Functions: These tests look at your planning, organization, time management, and problem-solving skills. Tasks might involve switching between different sets of rules or planning out a sequence of actions.
  • Motor Coordination: The neuropsychologist will assess both fine motor skills (like your handwriting) and gross motor skills (like balance).
  • Verbal vs. Nonverbal Abilities: This is the critical piece. The evaluation directly compares your verbal intelligence—which is often quite high—to your nonverbal reasoning skills, which are typically much lower in someone with NVLD.

This complete assessment is designed to find that specific gap between strong verbal skills and weaker nonverbal ones. That gap is the hallmark of a nonverbal learning disorder in an adult and provides the concrete data to explain why some things feel so incredibly hard while others come so easily.

One of the biggest hurdles you might face is the official status of NVLD. It isn't currently listed as its own distinct disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), which is the guide most clinicians use. This can sometimes make getting a diagnosis or accommodations more complicated. You can read more about NVLD’s classification challenges and understand why advocates are pushing for more formal recognition.

The Rise of Telehealth for NVLD Assessment

Fortunately, getting a high-quality evaluation is more accessible today than ever before. Modern telehealth services, like those we offer at the Sachs Center, allow adults to complete a full neuropsychological assessment from the comfort of their own home.

These virtual evaluations use validated digital tools and secure video conferencing to connect you with a qualified neuropsychologist. This completely removes the stress of traveling to an unfamiliar office—a huge benefit for anyone who already finds spatial navigation tricky.

After the evaluation, you’ll receive a detailed report that outlines all the findings, a formal diagnosis if one is made, and personalized recommendations to help you move forward. This document is a vital tool for everything from seeking workplace accommodations to guiding your therapeutic support.

An adult diagnosis of a nonverbal learning disorder is a huge moment of clarity, but it’s really just the beginning. The next, and most important, step is finding the right kinds of support and therapy to turn that newfound self-awareness into real-world progress. Because NVLD is such a unique mix of verbal strengths and nonverbal weak spots, a cookie-cutter approach to therapy just won’t cut it.

The best strategy is to build a personalized toolkit of therapies. Think of it like assembling a specialized pit crew where every member has a specific job. One therapist might help you work through the anxiety that bubbles up from social confusion, while another gives you practical tools to make navigating the physical world less of a headache. The aim is to find a combination that speaks directly to your challenges, building both skills and confidence along the way.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Building Coping Skills

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is often a cornerstone of support for adults with NVLD. It’s widely known for treating anxiety and depression—which are common companions to NVLD, thanks to ongoing social and organizational struggles—but its real magic here is its practical, problem-solving focus.

CBT helps you catch and reframe the negative thought patterns that take root after years of misunderstandings or feeling like you're not good enough. For instance, instead of getting stuck on the thought, "I'm just awful at talking to people," a therapist trained in CBT can help you break down social interactions into smaller, more manageable pieces. You'll develop concrete strategies for handling them, focusing on building practical skills to manage the emotional fallout of NVLD.

Occupational Therapy for Real-World Functioning

Many people hear "Occupational Therapy" (OT) and think of recovery from physical injuries, but it's an absolute game-changer for adults with NVLD. OT is all about improving the skills you need for the "occupations" of daily life, whether that's getting work done, managing your home, or navigating your hobbies.

An occupational therapist is an expert at helping people adapt to sensory and motor-based challenges. For an adult with NVLD, this can look like:

  • Improving spatial awareness: Coming up with clever ways to get through crowded stores, keep a workspace organized, or actually follow a map without getting turned around.
  • Enhancing fine motor control: Working on skills needed for everyday tasks like cooking, writing clearly, or using tools, which can be daily sources of frustration.
  • Developing organizational systems: Creating visual and step-by-step methods for managing chores, schedules, and projects that don't depend on natural spatial reasoning.

OT is about building a bridge between the things you want to do and the nonverbal processing challenges that make them hard. It gives you tangible, hands-on strategies to make daily life run more smoothly.

Therapy for an adult with NVLD isn’t about "fixing" a deficit. It’s about building a bridge between your strong verbal intelligence and the nonverbal world, using targeted strategies to make daily life smoother and less stressful.

Social Skills Groups for Practicing in a Safe Space

For many adults with NVLD, social skills groups are a uniquely powerful resource. These groups offer a safe, structured environment where you can learn and practice the social rules that seem to come intuitively to others but feel baffling to you. Unlike the wild, unpredictable nature of real-world socializing, these groups are led by a therapist who can explicitly teach and model social cues.

In this supportive setting, you can learn to:

  1. Read nonverbal cues like body language and tone of voice with direct, helpful feedback.
  2. Practice starting and holding conversations without the usual fear of saying the wrong thing.
  3. Understand sarcasm and figurative language through clear explanations and real-life examples.

The whole point is to demystify social interactions, transforming those confusing unspoken rules into concrete, learnable skills.

Finding professionals who truly get the nuances of neurodiversity is the secret to making this therapeutic toolkit work. To learn more about what to look for in a provider, exploring resources on neurodiversity-affirming therapists can be a great next step. A thoughtfully chosen combination of these therapies, guided by experts who respect your unique brain wiring, is the most effective way to build confidence and thrive as a nonverbal learning disorder adult.

Practical Strategies for Managing NVLD Every Day

Living with a nonverbal learning disorder as an adult often feels like navigating a world where the rules are unspoken and counterintuitive. While getting a diagnosis and starting therapy are foundational, the real progress happens in the small, everyday moments. It's all about building a personal toolkit of practical strategies—think of them as life hacks—that bridge the gap between your sharp verbal skills and your nonverbal challenges.

These strategies aren't about changing who you are. They're about creating supports that reduce daily friction, minimize stress, and let you lean into your strengths. By breaking them down by different areas of your life, you can start putting them to work right away where they'll help the most.

Excelling in the Workplace

The professional world can feel like a minefield of unwritten social rules and dense visual information. For a nonverbal learning disorder adult, thriving at work often comes down to creating structure and insisting on clear, verbal communication.

  • Make Technology Your Ally: Don't try to rely on mental notes or visual memory—it’s just an unnecessary source of stress. Use project management tools like Asana or Trello to break down big projects into a series of linear, text-based steps. Get into the habit of setting digital calendar reminders for everything, not just meetings, but also for when to start and finish specific tasks.
  • Advocate for Written Instructions: Your verbal processing is a superpower, so use it. When a manager gives you a complex verbal direction, it's perfectly okay to follow up with a quick email summarizing what you heard. Something as simple as, "Thanks for the chat! Just to confirm, my next steps are X, Y, and Z," gives you a written record to follow and ensures everyone is on the same page.
  • Structure Your Social Interactions: If networking events feel like your own personal nightmare, go in with a plan. Think of a few open-ended questions beforehand to get conversations rolling. During meetings, take notes not just on what’s being said, but on who is speaking and what you think their main point is. This simple shift turns a confusing social jumble into a more structured, data-gathering exercise.

Many of these strategies involve technology. Exploring various assistive technologies), even those designed for other learning differences, can offer fantastic support for daily tasks like scheduling and processing information.

Navigating Social Situations

Social life is often where the challenges of NVLD feel most personal, which can lead to a cycle of anxiety and avoidance. The key here is to make the implicit explicit and arm yourself with tools to handle that feeling of uncertainty.

A great first step is to simply give yourself permission to ask for more information. If someone’s tone of voice or a comment seems confusing, a neutral question like, "I'm not sure I'm following, what do you mean by that?" can prevent a world of misinterpretation. This isn't an admission of weakness; it's a tool for accurate communication.

A core strategy for social success is to externalize the "unwritten rules." Instead of trying to guess what's expected, find ways to make social information concrete and verbal, playing directly to your strengths.

It’s also important to remember that developing social skills is an ongoing process. Many adults find it incredibly helpful to explore structured approaches to social learning. If you're looking for more ideas on this, our guide on social skills for autistic adults has some really practical insights that can often be adapted for NVLD.

Creating Order and Calm at Home

Your home should be a sanctuary, not another source of visual-spatial stress. The goal is to set up organizational systems that don't rely on your innate spatial abilities. When you do this, you reduce the cognitive load, allowing you to truly relax and recharge.

  • Give Everything a Labeled Home: This is a game-changer. Use clear bins and a label maker for everything from pantry items to office supplies. Instead of a messy junk drawer, have small, labeled containers for "Batteries," "Pens," and "Tape." This turns the visual-spatial task of finding something into a simple reading task.
  • Use Checklists for Everything: Create laminated, reusable checklists for multi-step routines like your morning prep, cleaning the kitchen, or packing for a trip. This offloads the burden of executive functioning and sequencing onto a piece of paper, freeing up mental energy.
  • Embrace a "Less Is More" Philosophy: Visual clutter is mentally exhausting. The fewer items your brain has to visually track, the calmer your environment will feel. Regular decluttering isn't just about being tidy; it's a powerful mental health strategy.

To pull these ideas together, here’s a look at some common daily hurdles and the strategies—both low-tech and high-tech—that can make a real difference.

Everyday NVLD Challenges and Solutions

Challenge Area The Problem Low-Tech Strategy High-Tech Tool/App
Organization Forgetting tasks and losing track of project steps. Using a detailed paper planner or a whiteboard for daily goals. Project management apps like Trello or Asana; calendar reminders.
Social Cues Misinterpreting sarcasm or not knowing when to speak in a group. Preparing conversation starters; asking for clarification directly. Apps that teach facial expressions; watching scripted TV with subtitles.
Navigation Getting lost easily and struggling to read maps. Writing out directions in a step-by-step text list before you leave. GPS apps with clear voice commands (like Google Maps or Waze).
Time Management Underestimating how long tasks will take. Using a physical timer (like a Time Timer) to visualize time passing. Calendar blocking apps; setting multiple alarms for one task.

Putting these strategies into practice takes conscious effort, but they empower you to build scaffolds that support your daily functioning. By intentionally creating structure, leaning on your verbal strengths, and using tools to your advantage, you can effectively manage the challenges of being a nonverbal learning disorder adult and create a life that feels less chaotic and more in your control.

How to Build a Fulfilling Life with NVLD

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It’s one thing to manage the day-to-day logistics of a nonverbal learning disorder. It’s another thing entirely to build a life that feels genuinely fulfilling. This is the final, crucial step—moving beyond just coping with challenges and shifting your focus toward truly thriving.

This journey is all about embracing your unique cognitive profile, learning to advocate for your needs, and celebrating the remarkable strengths that come with it. It starts with self-advocacy.

Self-advocacy is the skill of explaining your needs to others—friends, partners, and employers—in a way that builds bridges, not walls. Think of it as giving people a clear, simple user manual for how your brain works. For instance, you could tell a partner, "My verbal memory is fantastic, but I might forget things if we don't write them down. Could we use a shared calendar for important dates?"

This kind of proactive communication can completely change the dynamic in your relationships and at work. It turns moments of potential friction into opportunities for real connection and understanding.

Embracing Your NVLD Superpowers

While the challenges of NVLD are very real, it’s just as important to recognize the distinct advantages that often come with this neurotype. Many adults with NVLD have an extraordinary set of skills that are incredibly valuable in many parts of life.

Your strengths might include:

  • An Impressive Vocabulary: A deep and nuanced grasp of language can make you a gifted writer, speaker, or communicator.
  • Remarkable Rote Memory: Your ability to recall facts, figures, and details with precision is a powerful asset in both academic and professional settings.
  • Intense Focus on Passions: When a topic grabs your interest, you might have an incredible capacity for deep, sustained focus, allowing you to develop true expertise.

Leaning into these strengths is the key. It means actively seeking out hobbies, career paths, and environments where your verbal and analytical skills can shine. For many, this path may involve exploring different employment options. Resources on vocational rehabilitation for neurodivergent individuals can offer valuable guidance on finding a career that truly aligns with your strengths.

Finding Your Community and Voice

One of the most powerful steps any nonverbal learning disorder adult can take is connecting with others who get it. For years, you might have felt isolated or misunderstood. Finding a community shatters that isolation.

Thriving with NVLD isn’t about erasing the challenges; it’s about building a life that honors your strengths, accommodates your needs, and connects you with people who understand. Hope is not just a feeling—it’s a strategy.

Online forums, local support groups, and advocacy organizations provide safe spaces where you can share stories, swap strategies, and simply feel seen. Hearing your own struggles reflected in someone else's story is incredibly validating and empowering.

Ultimately, this journey is about rewriting the narrative. A nonverbal learning disorder is a part of who you are, but it does not define your capacity for success, joy, and deep connection. By advocating for your needs, celebrating your unique talents, and finding your people, you can build a life that is not just manageable, but deeply meaningful.

Got Questions About Adult NVLD? We Have Answers.

It's completely normal to have a lot of questions when you're trying to understand what it means to be an adult with a nonverbal learning disorder. We get it. Let's clear up some of the most common points of confusion.

Is NVLD Just Another Name for Autism or ADHD?

This is probably one of the most frequent—and important—questions we hear. While NVLD, Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), and ADHD can look similar on the surface, they are very different conditions.

An adult with NVLD might struggle with social cues, much like some autistic individuals. But here's a key distinction: people with NVLD generally have a strong, innate desire to connect with others. The challenge isn’t a lack of wanting to, but a lack of the intuitive nonverbal skills to make those connections happen smoothly.

Likewise, the trouble with organization and planning in NVLD can easily be mistaken for the executive dysfunction seen in ADHD. However, the root cause is different. In NVLD, these issues usually stem from difficulties with visual-spatial processing and abstract thinking. For ADHD, it’s more directly tied to challenges with regulating attention and controlling impulses. Getting the right diagnosis is crucial for getting the right support.

Can I Be Successful at Work with NVLD?

Absolutely, yes. The key is to find a career path that highlights your strengths and to make sure you have the right support and accommodations in place. Adults with NVLD often shine in jobs that are heavy on language and don't rely as much on quick visual-spatial judgments or reading social dynamics on the fly.

The real game-changer is self-advocacy. It’s about knowing what you need and being able to ask for it, like requesting instructions in writing instead of verbally, or using project management tools to keep tasks on track.

Many adults with NVLD find great success and fulfillment in fields like writing, editing, law, or data analysis, where their powerful verbal abilities become a huge advantage.

Should I Disclose My NVLD Diagnosis to My Employer?

This is a deeply personal decision, and there's no one-size-fits-all answer. If your challenges are getting in the way of your job performance and you need formal accommodations under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), then disclosure might be the best path forward.

On the other hand, you can often advocate for your needs without ever mentioning a diagnosis. You can simply frame your requests around what helps you do your best work. For example, saying "I find I'm much more efficient when I have a written checklist for projects" is a way to get the support you need without disclosing your NVLD.


Understanding how your brain works is the first step toward creating a life that truly fits you. If you’re looking for diagnostic clarity or support, Sachs Center specializes in telehealth evaluations for neurodivergent adults. Book your virtual evaluation today.

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George Sachs PsyD
Dr. Sachs is a clinical psychologist in New York, specializing in ADD/ADHD and Autism in children, teens and adults.